Anal Toys for Beginners: A Safe, Comfortable Starting Point

Beginner anal play is all about going slow, using plenty of lube, and choosing the right toy. Here's what to know before you buy.

Always pick a flared base

Anal toys must have a flared base or retrieval ring to prevent them from getting lost.

Start small

Look for a butt plug under 1 inch in diameter. You can size up later as you get comfortable.

Body-safe materials only

Silicone, glass, and stainless steel are easy to sanitize and non-porous.

Lube is non-negotiable

Use a thick water-based lube. With silicone toys, avoid silicone lube.