Whether you’d like to indulge in some steamy DIY or explore sex toys with a partner, dong/vibrator can be a valuable addition to the bedroom. But where do you start when buying your first vibrator? Which vibrator will suit you? Check-out the first-timers vibe shopping tips below.
Are you a woman looking for…
Clitoral Stimulation?
The clitoris, with it’s 8000 nerve endings, is the only organ in the human body that exists solely for pleasure. The clitoris is the orgasm organ and there are some great clitoral advice out there to help you reach clitoral orgasm heaven! Here’a s great video we have created by Dong King that highlights the proper technique in fingering.
When a woman becomes sexually aroused, the clit increases in size, sensitivity, and fills with blood. After clitoral orgasm, the blood is dispersed and the clit will return to its normal size.
Clitoral sensivity varies from woman to woman. Some may enjoy vigorous stimulation, while others may only get off on a light touch. Nearly all women enjoy a ‘warm-up’ period before they can enjoy clitoral pleasure. If the clitoris isn’t properly lubricated, touch can be uncomfortable and very painful. Ensure that the clit is well lubed with saliva, natural bodily juices or water-based lubes, then reach for the clitoral vibrators.
There are hundreds of great clitoral vibrators on the market, so spend some time reading vibrator reviews and browsing different varieties and brands. Ask yourself whether you’d like a rechargeable vibrator or a battery operated vibe. Would you like lots of powerful Buzzzzzz or a discreet, gentle Purrrrrr? Or maybe you’ll just see a toy that makes you feel sexy. Trust your instincts too. My advice would be to start simple and focus your search on a non-fussy, understandable product such as a bullet vibrator or finger vibrator used mainly for clitoral stimulation.
Are you a woman looking for…
G-Spot or Vaginal Stimulation?
In 1950 when a physician by the name of Dr. Ernst Grafenberg found a mysterious female pleasure spot hidden within the vagina this gave hope to men who still couldn’t master the clitoris. I joke (kinda) but the G-spot has been subject to intense study since the 80s as men and women seek to discover and master the holy grail of female pleasure and take sex to new and exciting levels.
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located about one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front vaginal wall, the G-spot is a rough, bean-shaped spongy nub composed of erectile tissue which swells up when blood rushes to it. This super sensitive area has the potential to produce mind-blowing orgasms, given the right stimulation.
There are some excellent and highly effective vaginal and G-spot sex toys on the market so take some time to browse the g-spot vibrators section of your favourite sex toy website and, again, read plenty of reviews and get a feel for what you might like. Good sex toy websites will also have a beginners vibrator section, offering you a selection of fun, first-time vibes.
Starting with a simple, smaller sized, unintimidating vibrator may be the best move for your first purchase.
Realistic Vibrators/Dildos
A realistic dildo is crafted to feel like a real penis and often features the glans, foreskin, veins and sometimes the balls too. Some are even moulded from real people. Others are realistic feeling and made from lifelike materials (that need a little extra care and attention) for the most realistic sex simulation.
If you’re in a long distance relationship and miss the closeness of your partner, you could also purchase a mould kit and mould a dildo based on your partner’s penis. Again, spend some quality time assessing what turns you on, what turns you off, and don’t be afraid to ask for help…
Shop for a vibrator with a friend or a partner
If you’re shopping for a sex toy to share with your partner, why not spend any evening browsing the categories of your favourite sex toy website. It is most likely that you will stumble upon a vibrator that you both like. While you’re there, why not also look at the possibility of investing in a male sex toy, too, such as a fleshlight or a penis extension. Or maybe you have a girlfriend who knows a thing or two about sex toys and vibrators. Don’t be afraid to talk about your sex toy needs with a trusted friend – you’ll be surprised how experienced the prudest of the people can be. All reputable online sex toy retailers have a helpful and friendly advice service. Whether it be live chat, telephone, or email, someone will be there to guide you to the perfect vibrator based on your personal wants and needs.
Know your vibrator materials.
Silicone is a very durable, body-safe, non-porous rubber-like material that is often used in medical applications – it can have a soft, silky feel that is reminiscent of skin and many people like its natural warmth.
Metal, including 24K gold, platinum, and stainless steel. These materials are selected not only for their beautiful appearance, but also because of their durability, safety, and hygienic properties. Because of the thermal properties of the material, metal vibrators can also be warmed up or cooled down for different sensations.
ABS. A common plastic that is used in a multitude of consumer products. It’s non-porous, durable, body-safe, and is even used in some tattoo inks to provide vivid and lasting color.
TPE. A soft, stretchy compound that is body-safe and used in a wide range of products including medical devices. While TPE is not as durable as silicone, it is a good, inexpensive alternative.
You can find out the size of the vibrator, it’s battery requirements, brand and materials in the “Specification” section of the sex toy description.
Don’t forget some vibrator essentials
Before you check-out with your preferred vibe remember to stock up on some water-based lubricant. A few drops on your vibrator will feel a lot more comfortable and pleasurable. If you didn’t purchase one of the all new fangled designer vibrators with built in rechargeable units, remember to throw a couple of packs of batteries into your shopping bag. Some kind-to-toys anti-bacterial sex toy cleaner wouldn’t go amiss, too.
It’s a laugh!
With so many vibrator options out there, buying your first sex toy can be dizzying at times. Just remember to have fun, fun, fun all the way from the toy shop to the bedroom.
